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Counseling: Learning Contentment

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Thinking biblically about specific issues is important since we Christians get our worldview from biblical truth, & we can not make excuses, get correct help, must take action, and conquer sin, to live right and holy lives. Resources for self counseling on the topic of Discontentment and how to overcome it.  What is contentment? It is the being satisfied with the sovereign dispensations of God's providence. It is the opposite of murmuring, which is the spirit of rebellion—the clay saying to the Potter, "Why have You made me thus?" Instead of complaining at his lot, a contented man is thankful that his condition and circumstances are no worse than they are. Instead of greedily desiring something more than the supply of his present need, he rejoices that God still cares for him. Such an one is "content" with such as he has. "Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I ...

Christian Counseling Basics

Basic Understandings to Grasp  Go through this book. It will greatly help you in your own daily life but also when helping others.  I highly recommend the audio version of this book and to listen to it in focused quiet time. It would be good to buy the Kindle version and then add the Audio version for a few more dollars. If you do not have audiable you can even listen to the audio for free for a short time. You will def get more out of it by listening to the audio.  Pair each chapter with the extended lesson attached below for greater benefit.  Basic Understandings to Grasp   Love Know Speak Do  Ch 1 Biblical Counseling https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-2jv7u-14be4b6 Ch 2 In the Hands of the Redeemer https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-frd8e-14c7c3e Ch 3 Do We Really Need Help? https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-53yfz-14d1a9c Bonus:  Personal Data Form https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-y88nr-14dd21e Ch 4 Heart is the Target https://www.podbean.com/ea/pb-v8be8-14ef75e...

Christian Counseling ⭐

Christian Self Counseling Resources It is important to know that the main reason why the overwhelming majority of people professing to be Christian have so many problems in life is because they do not know Scripture. We need to be in it and know it deeply so we can seek proper counsel from it. And through that we grasp how faith in Christ, and knowing the living God revealed in it, is how we will properly see things, and trust & rely on Him.  Until you get to that point, and are deeply matured and see things clearly daily with such spiritual eyes, I hope this helps you on the journey.  Basic Understandings to Grasp  Self Counseling Topics  Prof Counseling Help

Damned by The Law

Jewish converts to Christ had come from Jerusalem and were incorrectly telling the converted Gentiles, “You’ve got to go back and do all those things that are in the Mosaic law.” They were basically saying “It is not enough for you that you have been saved by faith. In order to be truly saved, you must keep the law of Moses.” They were preaching a different gospel. Paul got really angry and wrote that was a horrendous distortion of the gospel!  In chapter 1:6, as you remember, he says, “I am amazed that you are so quickly deserting Him who called you by the grace of Christ, for a different gospel; which is really not another; only there are some who are disturbing you and want to distort the gospel of Christ. But even if we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to what we have preached to you, he is to be accursed, damned, anathematized!” Says it again, “As we said before, I say now again, if a...

Muslims misunderstand the Trinity

This resource has been provided to help correct your misunderstandings about the Trinity.  Tyoically the first thing we hear is ThE TrINitY wOrD iSnT iN tHe BiBlE. But let us also ask you Why do Muslims believe in Tawhid when that word doesn’t even exist in the entire Qur’an?   With that addressed let us move on to what Christians actually believe about and explain the Trinity so you can understand.  *  Is this why muslims dont comprehend the Trinity ? *  Trinity explained      Trinity pt2   *  Clarity on the Trinity *  The Trinity in humankind's Salvation *  Why would God say  He is "One" Hope this helped 🙂 <<< return to main page  What is the Gospel 

Christian Kids Music 🎶

These are mostly spotify, but you could compile a list from these and have someone create the playlist for you if you use apple or amazon music.   You need to go thru these lists and "hide" all the heretical Hillsong, Elevation and Bethel music.  1. Go through the lists, listen and and add them to your own family playlist.  2. Go directly to those artist pages and "hide" the artist so it doesnt show up in any of those playlists or anywhere you listen. Some have an offshoot group or album so hide those too.  Christian Kids playlist Christian kids music Christian Kids Worship playlist Amazon Kids music  The Ology: Ancient Truths Ever New by Sovereign Grace Music The Psalms Project They have a  Psalms for Sleep  album too   Updated Jan 2024

Porn slaying and Covenant Eyes failures

Unfortunately there is a large percentage of Christians who continue to fall victim to this sin with little repentance. We cannot make the assumption that a person has already made an effort to quit previously either. God commands us to be set apart from the world by turning from sin. Refusing to watch porn is a great way to set ourselves apart from the sin that is so widely accepted by the world. I don't remember the statistic, but when your read your Bible they've seen studies of depression being down and the urge to watch po*n was also down a significant amount. Fill your heart with God's Word and fleshly temptations and the devil won't want to hang around you Covenant Eyes might have good intentions, but it is also a problematic tool. God has given us freedom, shame be to those that “treat” problems by taking said freedom away. Like teaching a child not to touch things by shaming the child in public rather than explain and love. Covenant Eyes doesn’t heal porn a...

An Appointment in Heaven

 He wept with those who wept.  Edward D. Griffin resigned his pastorate at the Newark Presbyterian Church, one of the largest churches in the nation, to become professor of pulpit eloquence at the newly established Andover Theological Seminary in Massachusetts. When Griffin moved from New Jersey to Boston to assume his new position, he was accompanied by five students who would attend the new seminary.  One of them, Lewis LeCount Conger, soon fell seriously ill, and Griffin, who had grown to love the young man deeply, sought to inform and comfort the family of the ailing seminary student. Griffin’s poignant correspondence with those who loved Lewis Conger began:  January 2, 1810  My Dear Sir,  How often have you and your dear family said, “The Lord reigneth, let the earth rejoice.” What a blessing it is that He has the appointment of all our changes and trials. . . . You have given a son to Christ, and if He has work for him on the earth, He will preserve h...

Ministering tips for reaching & helping those who are dying 

Ministering tips for reaching & helping those who are dying  Note that with any books suggested in these links that you can find an audio version for them to listen to. Many who are hospitalized do not have strength nor ability to hold a book, nor attention span to read. Their mind wanders too but an audio book is great.  You can also have the Gospel of John on audio book or via a website read to them too. If they get saved, consider a few things: * Some kind of baptism if possible.  * Have them tell their salvation testimony on camera and share with the church so he can proclaim his faith.  * Post his testimony online with needGod.com link too * Have him write or dictate a letter to his loved ones and add the gospel and his testimony to it. Have him sign it. Get his address book and mail a copy to everyone he knows.  *If he wants to send specific letters to people or say certian things to people, do [him] a audio recorded letter and mail that by sdcard or t...

Counseling - Prayers & Dying

Prayer around death and dying How to handle Prayers    What should we actually be praying for and how should we be living in such a season? I have been thinking a lot about how we pray together for people in difficult circumstances. Tim Chester’s book in His Presence was very helpful. The puritan prayers for the sick and dying were not merely for healing, but for peace, sanctification etc through the trial. I wrote very careful emails while my husband was dying with our prayer requests and we never asked for prayers for healing. I was very clear that the cancer was an answer to prayer. We had asked for his body to be taken before he no longer knew us, and that I could keep him home til the end. God answered so many of my prayers during that season, but there were few in my own church I could say this to, because they only prayed for healing. We joined in on zoom, but used to mute when they prayed for his healing and pray over it thanking God that the Holy Spirit translated ...

Thoughts for Young Men

 From J.C. Ryle book,  "Thoughts For Young Men" "Resolve at once, by God’s help, to break off every known sin, however small. Look within, each one of you. Examine your own hearts. Do you see there any habit or custom which you know to be wrong in the sight of God? If you do, delay not a moment in attacking it. Resolve at once to lay it aside. Nothing darkens the eyes of the mind so much, and deadens the conscience so surely, as an allowed sin. It may be a little one, but it is not the less dangerous for all that. A small leak will sink a great ship, and a small spark will kindle a great fire, and a little allowed sin in like manner will ruin an immortal soul. Take my advice, and never spare a little sin. Israel was commanded to slay every Canaanite, both great and small. Act on the same principle, and show no mercy to little sins. Well says the book of Canticles, 'Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines'. "Be sure no wicked man ever meant ...