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Q:  My boyfriend has redirected himself to God (after 10 years). This means he's stopped being intimate with me, saying we should "wait until marriage". I don't understand - as someone who wasn't raised religious. I'm also trying to understand the ways of the Bible, but I'm feeling so lost at times. I just want to be intimate with him and show our love for each other. It's very hard not having that after we did for a year and a half. He keeps directing me to the story of Job, where🙃 I also keep opening up to every time I open a Bible. I understand that Job went through great turmoil (just like in my life) and that he still stood for God but I just can't find salvation in me. Any advice or anything would be appreciated. I'm trying so hard. A: Hopefully this will help. In a nutshell... *Believers cannot be in a relationship with non believers. *We live in a fallen world so yes all kinds of bad and sad things happen to all of us (because o...

Is it true Children of fornicating parents arent blessed?  Q:  I was told living in sin/ I wouldn’t be blessed, and I’d stop my child from receiving blessings too… but isnt a child a blessing??? People who aren’t married have multiple kids.. so I don’t understand how God could stop them or others from being blessed?? If he’s blessing them with children.  Please explain. A: You are confusing two things as if its the same.  Fornicating is a sin.  Having a child outside of marriage is considered a natural consequence , because sex by design is to result in babies. Children are meant to be a gift & blessing by God for those  inside a marriage (to her & the husband). Having a child [without that boundary for blessing (by being outside God's design)], brings profound and even more & far-reaching implications. It results in broken homes, leading to children growing up in two separate households.  One household might teach the child about God, ...

Thinking biblically about specific issues is important since we Christians get our worldview from biblical truth, & we can not make excuses, get correct help, must take action, and conquer sin, to live right and holy lives. Open every link in a new window  Q:  🚨 Warning: Not everyone who claims to be saved is. Not everyone who claims to be Christian is. Scripture is clear on that.  A: This answer applies to those who are enjoying lusting entertainment in any degree as well; racy stuff, obvious sexual content, fornicating, lusting, having inappropriate sexual thoughts, and even porn addiction... If we arent daily fighting and conquering sin, we arent growing nor walking with Christ, or not rightly.   If a sin controls us and we have not conquered it but embraced it... something is very wrong.  Galatians 5:16-26; So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won't be doing what your sinful nature craves. It usually means they not saved o...