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Q: God is in control of everything correct? He knows us before we were born. He knows everything we have done and what we are going to do. With this, why is being gay so bad? If God already knew what we were gonna be, do, etc why bring humans here just to put them in hell for honestly being themselves? It’s not just gay but other things we supposedly go to hell for? Why is it hard for humans to believe a person can love God and be gay? Just my earlier morning thoughts. And why is being gay the only “sin” that we as humans frown upon but everything else is ok? A: All sin is an assault on God. Sexual sin included, which also is a sin against ones own body.  Everyone is already hellbound because of our sins, Rom 3:23, but in God's Grace through Christ He choose to save some; those who obey the Gospel, whom God transforms. Until someone is born again by God they cannot love God, but are idolators, always sinning, trapped in their sin nature, making up preferences of beliefs but not obe...

Q:  My boyfriend has redirected himself to God (after 10 years). This means he's stopped being intimate with me, saying we should "wait until marriage". I don't understand - as someone who wasn't raised religious. I'm also trying to understand the ways of the Bible, but I'm feeling so lost at times. I just want to be intimate with him and show our love for each other. It's very hard not having that after we did for a year and a half. He keeps directing me to the story of Job, where🙃 I also keep opening up to every time I open a Bible. I understand that Job went through great turmoil (just like in my life) and that he still stood for God but I just can't find salvation in me. Any advice or anything would be appreciated. I'm trying so hard. A: Hopefully this will help. In a nutshell... *Believers cannot be in a relationship with non believers. *We live in a fallen world so yes all kinds of bad and sad things happen to all of us (because o...

Thinking biblically about specific issues is important since we Christians get our worldview from biblical truth, & we can not make excuses, get correct help, must take action, and conquer sin, to live right and holy lives. Open every link in a new window  Q:  🚨 Warning: Not everyone who claims to be saved is. Not everyone who claims to be Christian is. Scripture is clear on that.  A: This answer applies to those who are enjoying lusting entertainment in any degree as well; racy stuff, obvious sexual content, fornicating, lusting, having inappropriate sexual thoughts, and even porn addiction... If we arent daily fighting and conquering sin, we arent growing nor walking with Christ, or not rightly.   If a sin controls us and we have not conquered it but embraced it... something is very wrong.  Galatians 5:16-26; So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won't be doing what your sinful nature craves. It usually means they not saved o...