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Seeker sensitive movement gave way for deconstructionism

This article follows a prev discussion on decinstructionism movement.  I been saying these things to folk for years, even online. Addressing again as Wess Huff spoke recently about it.  Theres two main problems happening: seeker sensitive movement birthed  deconstructionism.   Those who profess Christ are either in a false church, thus they hear nothing true, or they dont go to church [plugging in actively in the community. Esp discipleship classes, new believers classes, and Sunday school]. Thus they dont read nor know the Bible, and dont grow into the knowledge needed to grasp reality of life on earth. They lean on their own understanding and their heart desires them. Solo Christianity mentality always fails and always leads to idolatry.  Many [True] churches that embraced seeker sensitive model... fail to teach these truths, esp to youth cuz all they do is pacify w "fun" stuff in "youth group" activities and hyped concert "worship" for youth [separatin...

Counseling - ADHD / ADD

Thinking biblically about what the world calls mental illness is important since we Christians get our worldview from biblical truth; so we can not make excuses, & must take action as we get correct help to conquer areas of weakness or sin, to live right and holy lives. The world diagnoses/calls this as a disease and disorder: Attention Deficit Disorder aka Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, or neural development disorder of childhood. It is not a mental illness. If you examine it you will find it is a self control and focus issue, not a medical issue. There are pockets of skills needed to grow in and areas of maturity growth like in self control that's needed. They are living in sinful selfish desires and not doing the hard things to become a well rounded person.  So, if we're talking about young kids this sounds like a lack of proper parenting issue, right? To be training and guiding the child so they can grow up rightly. From 5th to 8th grade parents (esp of boys)...

Home schooler w bad influence public school friends - advice

Q: We are homeschoolers. As a mom I’m really struggling right now. I found explicit photos on my son’s phone. When I confronted him, he immediately blamed his public school friend, saying that friend installed the images without him knowing . I’m not sure if I should believe him or if he’s just using this friend as an excuse. My son is a descent kid and It’s starting to feel like this public school friend is a bad influence on him. I’m wondering if I should cut off their contact altogether. Advice? A: It is likely he is lying and needs either to not have a phone, only a basic flip phone, and have controls in place on the computer/ any media content to limit his venturing further. You could have a police come over [with advanced discussion on what to say and things not to say (things that dont fit a moral worldview), to educate and scare him about porn and jail. And his father can also have important conversations about expectations he has of your son to live as a descent person, not ...

Parents Resources*

Looking for some resources as a parent for parenting and faith based helps? While these resources are not exhaustive and new things are added regularly I hope what is here blesses you.  *Open links in a new browser window to return to this page  ⭐️ How to raise Children for Christ  ⭐️ How to help guide your Teen in the Faith  Teaching your kids the Essentials of the Faith is important. See pt1 & 2 here especially for those under 13. And all the Foundationals here for all ages, as you teach and lead the family Bible hour. Godly fathers should lead daily. In cases of a absent or unsaved father, the godly mother should lead this family hour.    Teach them about their true identity so they don't go seeking it in worldly counterfiet ones. Important for a child to know  More Resources Lots of resources here for parents, married couples and adult individuals.  A Parenting ministry that can also help with varied articles. The 10 Comm...

Influencing you children for Christ *

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Bookmark page Rough ideas you can use.... How to help your 5 to 11 year old and instil Christian principles and Christian life in them. Jump to bottom for teen & preteen. But theres good ideas here for older kids too ... Scripture tells us it is our whole life and being to be a Christ follower and lover of God our Creator, and that our homes should have verses and faith focused items so we can have our thoughts on Him. But also to talk with our children and others at home or away from home, about the things of God. We live out our faith, it isnt just a Sunday thing.  *If you need a visual you can show amish images and that they live differently from the world. We dont dress like them but we live Christian according to the bible. In the world but not of it. Our "community" is in the local church, but job is to go into the world and proclaim the Gospel.  Frequent Questions resource  Below are some example conversations  to continually have...