Mature believers advice on relationships

As a mature believer in Christ I feel it is important to call this to your attention. We are to be different from the world. Set apart for God and living holy lives. I wonder if many of you here are actually saved.  

I see a lot of posts here regarding a great many of you ladies living with your boyfriend or fiancés before marriage, or even creating families as if you are already married. I also see where you put yourself in situations (I.e, vacations, in bed together) where you are alone with men and say you “accidentally” had sex, and many other types of conversations and questions posted here. 

This issue is discussed 67x in the Scriptures, and shouldnt need to be talked about more than once: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24)

I just have real questions regarding these situations. What Bible are you reading? Are you reading the Bible for yourselves or are you relying on someone to tell you what it says? Are you choosing to ignore the Word and living on the throne of your life where you claim Christ reigns? How are you different from the people in the world? 

I am genuinely curious about this because these things are talked about in the Bible and none of the stuff being posted and asked are approved in God’s Word. I am glad you are seeking guidance from where you find yourself, in the mess you got yourself in, but are you genuinely going to take biblical advice, repent and get your life cleaned up and back on the righteous path? Do you love Jesus enough to forsake it all, even if that means your significant other walks away? 

Yes, it shows a clear problem, but also still allows for a solution. But will you do it?

It is also good for older and wiser Christians to exhort and admonish and call to repentance as has happened here. We can educate and encourage one another in growth. And I hope you will get your life in order, today, right this minute. 

That goes for you men too if you are reading this. 

I hope you do not take offense but are grateful this advice was brought to your attention in sobriety today.  A mature believer is concerned about, you, the souls of those who name Christ but live as the world. Scripture teaches us and mature women to teach the younger ones, it also calls for exhorting, admonishing, correcting, and calling to repentance. We are not to be like the world, but be a witness to it. We cant do that if they see no diff between us and them. We are to live holy. I hope you thank God today someone stepped up trying to help those who read this. We can only be blessed by such a one who God laid on em's heart to use courage and speak up, for yall's benefit. I pray you all will pray on it and follow the Word. 

I also thank God this is an issue you/we can correct, since you are still alive and can do so. May God lead you to righteousness. 

-Love you in Christ 😊, and hope this really helps you. 🙂

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